Monday, March 15, 2010

Online dating pleasures and pains


Online dating can be very enticing. Yet it can also be extremely dangerous. Recently social networks have exploded and become the ‘in thing’. They have become a fad so to speak. Granted, many couples have met, dated and a few have even married after finding each other on the internet. However, meeting someone that you have very little confirmed knowledge about can be risky.

Dangers and problems of online dating include but are not limited to: the ‘prince charming,’ or ‘perfect woman’ online can choose to represent themselves in any way they see fit. Individuals on these dating sites may misrepresent their relationship status, and actually be married. Thus, they may simply be seeking casual encounters, and general excitement rather than a relationship with any sort of meaning or staying power.

If asked for bank account or credit information warning alarms and red flags should cause one to evaluate the intentions of this online ‘friend’. This individual could be attempting to pull a con. Sharing personal financial information should never be a part of a new interaction with a potential mate.

Online dating can be a great experience; one just needs to take the proper precautions. Always listen to intuition. If something doesn't seem right move on. If the person chatting seems very eager to meet right away, they may have less than your best interest at heart.
The best advice is, always meet in public places. Utilize a reliable form of transportation, thus negating reliance of this online friend for transport. Another alternative in ensuring safety is to do a background check on the individual before meeting. A person's profile will often contain little white lies such as statements in relation to, height, age, weight, and of course their intentions. It's up to you to listen to your instincts and keep yourself safe. Always be smart and alert, and enjoy your online dating experience.

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